
( Three Amazing Men!)
Today was a very tragic one. One of my dearest friends from Mesa, Tim Filichia Jr. died in a horrible car crash on his way back to BYU at 1:00 in the morning. I didnt receive news of this until about 8 through a text message. I froze, I immediately started to cry uncontrollably, he was just home safe, making jokes, laughing and hanging out with friends and family. How could this happen to him, his family, me? Why now? He was so young, nearly 27 and a strong active member of the church, he was everything! I told my mom and she reacted similarly. I got one the computer and opened some pictures of us this summer. He was so happy, that was undoubtedly the best summer of my life. I learned so much from him. I cant get my mind off of his family, they are all so amazing and they face so many trials, why this, and now? I think about conference and Elder Tenorios talk on eternal salvation. I know Tim is so amazingly happy right now, if there is anyone that should go directly to the celestial kingdom, its him! He was such an example to me in . . . every way! Hes one of those people that you just meet him for the first time and you know. . . he has this undying testimony of the gospel, he was always reading the scriptures, he was always learning more about the church and sharing it! I love him dearly and will never forget all the goo times we had. This summer was life changing, he's character and personality changed everyone in the group. I am lucky to have known him and to have been touched by his light. I love you Tim.
Tim was never short of friends, his amazing personality and love for others always drew a big crowd of amazing people such as himself.
Tim was a family guy! He is soo family oriented and his family and him are sooo tight, its insane! He was best friends with all of them!

Oh Tim how funny you were! Thats one thing that im sure he'll take to heaven with him! He has this amazing ability to make even the dullest being break into immediate laughter! He had an AMAZING sense of humor and his faces were sometime all it took to cheer up your day!!

A Dancer! yes ladies, he had it all! He was my dance partner this summer and I dont think Ive ever laughed so hard in my life. Spending . . .too many hours in the studio with him was almost to much for my little brain to handle! He really made this summer for me! The while trip!

Tim your always in my heart and your family is so strong. You were the best example for me and I hope someday i can be half the person you were, if I'm lucky. I love you Tim.
Kayla, I'm soo sorry to hear about Tim. I've been thinking about you all day. I'm glad you have such a great understanding on Heavenly Father's plan.
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One of my favorite memories of Tim was on the trip home from CA and his ability to make every situation fun, without hurting someones feelings and making sure to respect everyone. His testimony at the fireside was unforgetable. He has an amazing family who we love much, that is who I can keep my mind off of. We love the Filichia family and will have you in our prayers - Love, Vonda
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ReplyDeleteI, too, am so sorry. I know their are no words for your loss. Tim sounds like an amazing, dynamic friend to you. I've been thinking of you since I heard and will say a prayer for Tim, his family, and of course, for you. Let me know if I can do ANYTHING for you. I know you are surrounded by such an awesome family and many who love you. And I know you have a close relationship with your Savior and He is always there for you, too. Love you Kayla!
Sis Whitman
Kayla,
ReplyDeleteI can't even imagine how you're feeling right now, but I want you to know that our family's prayers and thoughts are with you tonight and always. Tim sounds like an amazing guy with an amazing relationship with his Father in Heaven. As you are morning him leaving this world, Heavenly Father is rejoicing and welcoming him into His arms to stay. Please let us help in any way we can. We love you---Aunt Paula
Kayla,
ReplyDeleteI happened upon your blospot when I was googling Tim to see if there was anything on him - I only found you memorial. Kayla, I miss you so dearly. What I want more than anything in the world right now is to be at home with all my dearest friends and family. I feel so helpless up here. I am the one that has always kept a cool head during the hard times, and now I can't do anything about it. Lanae called me today just after she found out - she was sobbing - and I couldn't do anything about it because she was in class and I had class right after. Kayla, I miss you so much. I am praying for you and for everyone else who knew Tim. He was such an incredible man. All who knew him loved him and knew he was there friend. I feel honored to have been up here with him these few weeks, but i only wish I had called him the other day when I felt like I should, just to say hi. But because the day was so crazy, I forgot and never got around to it. Now I can never call him. Kayla, I am sorry. Why couldn't have called him right then? Why do I always do everything at the wrong time? I feel I never do anything right. But at least I know that praying is the right thing to do. I will kepp you in my prayers too, and everyone else. I love you. Love, Christopher
Kayla, I'm so sad to hear about your friend. Just remember and cherish the good times you had with him. He must have been a really great guy for Heavently Father to call him home so soom. I just want you to know how much I love you and how SPECIAL I think you are.
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Gmom Hatch
Kayla, I'm so sorry about your friend. How lucky you are to have a friend like that and he you. Thank goodness we have the knowledge of the Gospel in our lives!
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